Understand the “why” behind your child’s behavior

Parents are the experts on their children. As your thought partner, I bring many years of expertise in early childhood development and parenting skills.

My Approach

I see my job as guiding parents to do the detective work of decoding their children’s behavior to understand the root cause—what is driving the child’s actions—by putting together the pieces of the puzzle: how a child’s stage of development, temperament and experiences in their family and the world shape her behavior.

With this insight, I can help parents think through what their children need from the caring adults in their world to develop strong coping and problem-solving skills to manage the challenges they face as they grow, such as how to:

  • Express feelings with fluency

  • Cooperate with rules and limits

  • Be adaptable and flexible

  • Feel confident to overcome challenges

  • Form positive relationships

  • Function well in group settings (i.e., childcare or school)

I also help parents navigate media use and set up limits for their child that align with their goals and values.

  • "Kirsten helped us slow down and really see our child in a new light. Her insight was gentle but powerful—and gave us tools we use every day."

    – Melissa & James, San Rafael

  • "After just a few sessions, I felt more confident and grounded as a parent. Kirsten brings so much empathy and wisdom—it felt like having a guide who truly understood us."

    —Elena, Petaluma

  • "Working with Kirsten brought a sense of calm to our home. She helped us align our parenting with our values and reminded us that we’re not alone in this journey."

    —Leah & Max, Mill Valley

  • "Kirsten’s approach is full of kindness and clarity. She didn’t judge where we were—she simply met us there and gently helped us grow."

    —Diana, Sebastopol

  • "Our sessions with Kirsten transformed the way we communicate as a family. She gave us real tools, but also helped us reconnect with our purpose as parents."

    —Ravi & Talia, Berkeley